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Coming Soon

I have another book that will be coming out in 2015. This book has been difficult to write because it takes me out of my comfort zone. It’s a book of poems that God gave me. Nonetheless, I wrote them and I’ve tried them out on a few people and got some pretty good results back. Therefore, I will let you in on one of them. Please let me know what you think.

STRANGER
We don’t talk by day
But you want to creep by night

You don’t respond to my text by day
But you knock on my door at night

You see me in passing
And act as if you don’t know my name

Finally, we meet up, but I’m silent
You go to touch me and I pull away

You say what’s wrong
And I say

Momma told me never talk to strangers
And I yell to the top of my lungs

STRANGER! DANGER!

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Do You

Do you conform just to fit in? Do you feel out of place, when you desire to do the opposite of the crowd? Are you afraid to do you?

God made you different than everyone else. It’s alright to do you. Besides, who is better at doing you than you. People are going to always talk, so give them something to talk about.

People don’t want you to do you, because they are afraid to be themselves. They’re afraid to step out on faith. Therefore, they don’t want you to step out on faith. They want you to cower down and and let every opportunity pass you by.

Forget that and forget them. Do you! Go after every opportunity that comes your way. Step out on faith, get what God has for you and if you’re bold enough; take what they don’t want.

Bottom line, be the best you you can be, and if people get mad tell them to stand in line.

Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.

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It’s Not Your Birthday

Today my daughter kept asking me what am I getting her for her birthday. I told her, we haven’t even made it to Thanksgiving and Christmas yet. Her birthday is in January. She said mom, in her voice that she uses when she’s irritated.

Finally, I said; you want me to get you something for Christmas and your birthday. I explained to her that Christmas is Jesus’ birthday, and how would it look if I gave you a present on somebody else’s birthday. Do you think Jesus would be ok with that? She was really irritated now, but I was trying to make a point.

All my daughter saw was that she could get gifts for Christmas and her birthday. She never realized that Christmas was Jesus’ birthday, but he never gets a present. We never get a cake and sing to him. We never say on Christmas Day, hey come to my house the parties going down for Jesus.

I just wanted to give her something to think about. And, to let her know because Christmas is coming doesn’t mean she’s getting gifts, she’s only guaranteed a present on her birthday.

Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.

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Stop Slacking

Has God told you to do something, and you started doing it with a vengeance and was on fire? In the beginning nothing could stop you, but now you find yourself barely doing it? Or, you have quit doing it altogether?

I use to hold a bible study for professional women in leadership. I was on fire, but then I began to travel so much for my job, that I let it fall by the wayside. One of the ladies saw me a few weeks ago and asked; hey when are we starting back up. I tried swindling out of it because I’ve been so busy. I just told her yeah we will see. Then, this morning she called me and said; we’re starting today right at 11:30. I agreed.

I am so happy this lady was persistent. God had given me a ministry and I started slacking. I didn’t realize how much people needed this bible study, I was only thinking about myself. It’s like this blog; I be wanting to quit but my sister keeps pushing me. Besides, when we ask God to use us, we never know in what capacity he will do it.

Now the mirror has been turned on me to show me my slacking. Now I’m determined more than ever to run on and see what the end will be. If I’m faithful over a few things he’ll make me ruler over many.

Are you slacking? Take it from me; it’s not worth disappointing God.

Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.

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I Won’t Go Back

Has God delivered you from something and you are struggling not to go back to it? Does it seem like you’re in a fight for your life? Does praying and fasting seem not to be working?

Hold on! God knows right where you’re at, and no man can pluck you out of his hands. The enemy is pulling out all of the stops to get you back on his side. However, you have to be persuaded in your mind; I won’t go back. No matter how it looks, I won’t go back. Even if I’m offered something better to go back, I’m not going to do it.

God has a purpose and a plan for your life. Trust and believe he only wants the best for you. Trust and believe he will never leave you nor forsake.

Whatever you do, don’t go back, it’s not worth it. As Jesus would tell people in the bible he delivered; go and sin no more less a worse thing come upon you.

Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.

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Just Listen

Sometimes when people are talking to you and pouring their heart out to you, they just want you to listen. They don’t want any feedback, they don’t want to know what you would do if you were in their situation, they just want you to listen.

We are so quick to give advice to the point we feel like being silent is awkward. Quite frankly, I like not having to answer people back all the time. I don’t mind being a sounding board for them, because I’d rather they get all of their anger and emotions out with me; than go do something stupid. Also, people don’t always need a word either. Look at the woman that was caught in adultery. Jesus just listened and was writing on the ground, he didn’t get deep with her, he didn’t prophesy to her, he just asked her a question and told her to keep it moving and stop sinning.

There will be times when you will have to speak but you need to figure out when that time is. And, when you begin to speak, don’t start accusing the person or start saying stupid stuff. In other words, don’t be like Job friends, they were quiet for seven days and on the eighth day they began to talk and couldn’t shut up.

Listening is a skill that many of us don’t have. We hear but we don’t listen. So today, when someone begins to tell you about their situation; be quiet, let them say everything and if they ask for your opinion then say something. If they don’t then be quiet.

Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.

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Let Your Hair Down

Many people in the church feel as though they can’t let their hair down, have fun, laugh or relax because they have a title. It’s like they got a their title and lost their sense of humor.

Christians have to learn to have a balanced life. There’s a time to be serious then there’s a time to be you. My kids don’t need Elder Brown they need momma. Before I was Elder Brown I was a person who laughed, cried, had fun and could reach the people. Now that I’m Elder Brown, I’m still a person, I still laugh, I still cry, I still have fun and I still am accessible to the people.

All too often we let our titles change us , and we begin to think we are better than what we ought to think. My constant prayer is Lord never let me get the big head. I’m not asking you to sin, but I am asking you to be human again.

Besides, who would ever want to serve your God, if they had to stop being who they are. Who wants to walk around stuck-up all day because of their title? Get over your titles and let your hair down.

Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.

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When People Think You Need Them

Isn’t it something how you can be cool with someone, and as soon as they find out you need them or think you might ask them for help; they begin to act like they’re better than you. They forget they once needed help or if they keep living the tables may turn.

Instead of getting mad with them for treating you bad; let them know, that you were giving them a chance to be a blessing to you. But now they have blocked their blessing and God will use someone else. I know we’ve never looked at the situation like that and before we start saying amen, let’s see what God has to say.

God says we act the same way when it comes to him and the church. We think the church needs us so we hold our tithes, offerings and gifts back thinking if we don’t help the church, then the church will fail. We act like God need us to praise him, forgetting he got some rocks on standby in case we don’t want to praise him. We act like the choir won’t be anointed if our solo isn’t sung, not realizing up above our heads is music in the air. We have God so twisted that we treat him like a mere man.

But check this out, we were not God’s first choice. He chose the Jews first and he adopted us. So, the next time we become so ugly thinking somebody need us. Know that help will be provided whether or not you have positioned yourself to be used.

Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.

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Second Chance

When people hurt us why do we feel like they don’t need or deserve a second chance? Yet, when we mess up we want God to give us grace and mercy.

Truth be told, if God only gave us a second chance we’d be in hell right now. He’s given us numerous chances and yet we still need more chances. We’ve all been hurt and we’ve all hurt somebody. Therefore, before we become so self-righteous and so dignified, we need to check ourselves. That person that hurt you deserves another chance because you may be their only life line here on earth.

I’m guilty of wanting to throw people away, especially if they’ve hurt me beyond belief. But who am I to throw God’s child away. That same person I want to throw away, may be the one that has to give me my last glass of water on my death bed. And besides, who made me judge, jury and executioner.

Just as God gives me daily reality checks. Let him give you the same check and take heed to it. It just may save your life and other people lives around you.

Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.

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What Will You Give

On today we celebrate all of the Veterans, past and present. Many of our Veterans have given their all and have sacrificed much. They’ve spent numerous days and hours away from love ones. They’ve missed countless birthdays, anniversaries, graduations, babies first steps, births of their children, etc… And ultimately many of them have given their lives.

It makes me mad when people who have never served one day in the military, think they know what’s best for the military. Non-Veterans don’t have a clue what it cost for them to roam freely, they take for granted that someone died in order for them to do what they do. They murmur and complain, yet they are not willing to make such a sacrifice.

I guess we all treat Jesus like that. We murmur, we complain, we take life for granted, we act as if no one died for our sins and freedoms; yet none of us are willing to die for each other. None of us are willing to sacrifice all, especially for people we don’t like or know.

So, what will you give to this world? What mark will you leave? Will you sacrifice anything or will you murmur and complain until the day you die?

Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.

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