Many of us know people who think they are show stoppers. They think things cannot get done if they don’t do it. They think we will crumble and fall if they walk out or quit. They think the world revolves around them. The military has a great way to show people that they are not show stoppers. If you’re in the military and you die today, you will be replaced by the morning. Nothing and no one stops the show. I’ve seen this a lot in churches. People think if they leave the choir then it won’t sound good without them. All they did was make room for someone else to use their gift. Sometimes we enable these people behavior, by begging them to stay or pumping their heads up making them believe the world really does revolve around them.
If you know someone like this, in order for them to stop this behavior you have to show them that they don’t stop the show. Show them it can be done without them. Show them you can thrive without them in your life. Show them life goes on with or without them. One of two things will happen; either they will get over themselves and become a team player, or they will continue to act the same. You are the one that has to decide if they will stop your show or not.
Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.