Sometimes God will get you all by yourself, so that you will know that he is God alone. It’s not that your friends don’t like you anymore, or that your family members are acting funny; it’s God not allowing them to be available for you so that he can deal with you. Sometimes, you want to keep relying on the same people, inadvertently making them your god or your resource. God doesn’t want that, he wants you to depend solely on him. So, if that means having people forsake you then so be it. If that means people not showing up for you then so be it. If that means, you having to be alone and cry all night long, then so be it. God will bless you in the midst of your burdens. He doesn’t always have to remove the burdens of your life to bless you. However; he does have to get you alone so that you don’t think the blessing came from your family members or your friends. When you are all by yourself with God, be like Jacob and wrestle with God until he blesses you. Don’t let go of him, hold on even if you have to hold on all through the night. 2Corinthians 4:17 says; for this light affliction which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory. In other words, what you are going through is nothing compared to what God is going to bless you with.
Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.