Have you ever thought about God as being an after the fact God? When you read the bible do you notice he shows up after the fact?
After Moses killed a man, God showed up. After Lazarus died, God showed up. After Saul killed Christians, God showed up. After the woman was caught in adultery, God showed up.
You’re wondering why God is acting like he doesn’t see or care about what you’re going through. Well he’s waiting till after the fact; so he can show up mighty and you will know without a shadow of a doubt, it was nobody but the Lord that brought you out. If he showed up before the fact, you wouldn’t learn any lessons from the trial.
So be thankful, God may not show up when you think he should, but he will show up at the brink of your give up.
Be blessed and continue to be a blessing.